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Learn From The Mistakes Of Others


One of the best and most efficient ways to learn is by paying attention to what others are doing. 

This has many benefits, but probably the biggest is that by watching other people, you can learn from their mistakes.

This has helped me avoid myriads of time-consuming endeavors and experiences.

For instance, I saw how miserable and overworked the majority of teachers were while getting my degree. 

Sure some seemed happier than others, but it still seemed like a significant amount of work for minimal compensation.

So rather than experience it myself, I got the hint by seeing and learning from teachers. 

My point is this:

Rather than spend precious time, which indeed is the most precious asset you will ever have, doing something you see others struggling with or wishing they didn’t do,

Take the hint and simply don’t do it

This ability is a gift!

It should be used to its fullest potential!!

Unfortunately, it seems many seem to go through life with blinders on.

They think they know what they want, so they stop paying attention to the world around them.

This is a colossal mistake though!

By not learning from the mistakes of others you are doomed to repeat them to some capacity.

(The same could be said about history, but that’s a post for another time.)

Be aware!

Be mindful!

And always listen!

It is very easy to mess-up in life, and to an extent, it’s beneficial to mess-up.

(Another post for another time perhaps.)

But why waste time making the same unnecessary mistakes that those around you have made?

Simply learn from them and don’t waste your time.

-Ryan, Persona Coach

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