Competition

Competition, I would define as, “two or more people striving for the same audience, position, or reward.”

Although it is necessary for the continuation of our way of life, and indeed, has always been so to some degree,

Realizing that it is necessary to compete in life can be overwhelming for some, even mentally paralyzing– causing indefinite inaction.

And I mean, I get it.

We’re not just competing with those in our community anymore. 

We’re essentially competing with the entire world!

So how do you compete with the entire world for the metaphorical success trophy?

There is a lot that could go into answering that question, but the first and most important thing you need to do is change your outlook on competition.

It is easy to fall into the “me vs. the world” kind of mentality, which almost always will lead to mental paralysis.

So instead of thinking like that, which can be incredibly isolating and dark, try thinking “me and the world.” 

I’m not saying be naive and ignore the realities of competition; that is just as bad as inaction, perhaps worse.

What I am saying is try to connect with your “rivals."

Learn from them.

Emulate what they’re doing well.

Don’t just say, “Damn that Tony Robbins– how could I ever be like that?”

Instead ask yourself, “What has Tony been doing that works so well?”

This line of thinking works the same for smaller, personal “rivals,” people you probably actually know.

Instead of looking at them as people you need to defeat, try making genuine connections with them. 

You might learn a thing or two.

Plus,

You most likely have a lot in common with them, otherwise you wouldn’t be competing!

Indeed, competition has always been and will always be necessary for the continuation of life, but by changing your perception of what it means to compete, you will find it much easier to do so 😎👍

-Ryan, Persona Coach